It is important to know that since it is possible to fall in love then it is equally possible to fall out of it. It is extremely hard to come to terms with the changes in the behavior of your partner that you are still in love with but who no longer loves you. If you want to ascertain whether the changes in behavior actually mean the end of your relationship, below are signs to help:
Your partner is no longer in love with you if:
They Stopped Giving you Preferential Treatment
You were once number one on their priority list but of late you are left wondering if you still make the list. This is one of the warning signs that they've stopped considering you as the most important person in their life.
You know they are no longer in love with you if your partner avoids eye contact with you, does not encourage or actively participate in conversation and maintains their distance. Normally, they would be the one volunteering information about themselves, such as letting you know how their day went without your asking, and so on. They sudden clamp up means they no longer love you.
They are Indifferent to Your Irksome Habits
When your partner becomes indifferent and your annoying habits don't irk them anymore, then know they no longer have interest in the relationship.
They Dodge Intimacy
Another sign to look out for is if they no longer want to be intimate with you. If they positioned their body away from you and avoid physically touching you at all cost, then they no longer love you. They normally can't wait to get intimate with you and would enjoy intimate gist about your times together but such talks would not interest them anymore or even annoy them when they no longer have feelings for you.
They Stopped Calling You Pet Names
If they stopped calling you honey, sweetie, sugar, boo, etc., know their strong feelings for you have gone and they no longer love you.
They Became Secretive
They were once accessible - an open book to you; you once knew their plans in advance and how their calendar looks like the next one month but not any longer. If they became secretive overnight, not wanting you to know what they are up to, it is a sure sign that they are tired of the relationship and don't want you in their life anymore.
They Want to Be Just Friends with Benefits
Friends with benefits is when you get sexually involved with a friend with no strings attached. If your partner with whom you are in a monogamous relationship tells you they want to be friends with benefit with you, then they are clearly letting you know that they now see you as a someone they could take for a fun romp in the sack and nothing more.
If They Suggest You Be in An Open Relationship
Unlike Friends with Benefits, an open relationship entails some form of commitment to your partner; you could even be legally married to them. But this type of relationship, although you are somehow committed to your partner, connotes that they wouldn't mind you 'seeing' others. If your partner suggests an open relationship, it simply means you are no longer 'the one' and they are keeping their options open and eyes peeled for someone better. If they still love you, they will want you exclusively for themselves.
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