Does your boyfriend's attitude keeps you guessing if he is the committing type? Do you often wonder how soon that will be that is if he ever will?
You know he will never commit if:
1. He’s Clooney-esque in attitude (as in being a bachelor for life, but likely not as good looking). The longest relationship he’s had is two years, and then he breaks it off using some lame excuse that wouldn’t hold up at the post office.
2. He charms the panties off of you--literally. Then you slept with him and it suddenly seems he’s not as “into” you as he once was. Even coffee together the next morning takes on a dark pallor.
3. His eyes gloss over when you talk about yourself or your interests. He would rather keep the conversation focused on what matters: him. If he talks about himself in the third person, or talks about the future in the first person singular, just run.
4. He makes empty promises that he can’t keep. Remind him and he will pretend to have forgotten. It’s not that he has to work on a big project, it’s that he’d rather go out with the girl he met last night.
5. After a few dates, he’ll start talking about how effed up he is. And how he thinks he may be depressed or confused. You think. “Poor guy, I can help.” I like to think of this as preparing for his grand exit. It’s really just another way of saying it's not you, it’s me.
He will never be ready for commitment however long you stayed with him. Just run before your sell-by date arrives and finds you still on the shelf.
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