How to Tell He Does Not Love YOU

We all at some point want to love and be loved back in return, thus, when you are in love with a man, it is only natural that you want him to feel exactly the same way about you. Unless he's constantly telling you how he feels, it's really difficult to know. You can gain a lot of insight by the way he behaves when he's with you. There are some telltale signs he does not love you anymore that you should be aware of. Sometimes we can tell when something is wrong in our relationships even before it is put into words.  And while some men have gone the cruel route of bluntly telling their partners "I don't love you anymore", others will only admit this through their behavior.  Like the old adage says, "actions speak louder than words", so we can often draw from his actions or treatment of you what he is really feeling about you.

Given below are some signs that he does not love you.
 

 
• You are dressed to the nines to impress him.  You got you a new 'do and bought yourself and LBD (Little Black Dress) that cost a fortune because he once mentioned in passing that the color black suits you.  You wore it to that date you practically 'forced' on him but he never seems to even notice it.
• You are the one who is always calling him on phone. You initiate all contacts or conversations with him. Times without number, he ignores your calls and does not bother to call you back. If you are lucky he called back and you as much as questioned him about this behavior, he'll either snap at you or say he's busy or that you are demanding too much attention from him.  A man who loves you would want to talk to you on a regular basis and will appreciate your wanting to stay in touch regularly too.
• He does not include you in his plans or make efforts to meet you regularly. Does he even ask you out for a date? Or does he ask as per his convenience? If he's constantly making plans that don't include you, it's one of the signs he does not love you. Men want to be around the women they love as much as they possibly can.  If he schedules time with his friends more often than he sets aside time for you, he's not as committed as you may think.
• He does not take any interest in you or your activities or put efforts to make you happy.  A man in love with you would want to know what your plans are, whether for something as ordinary as the weekend or something as extraordinary as your future.
• He does not even bother to introduce you to his family or friends. If he must, he'll introduce you as just a friend.  He also avoid being with you in places where anyone might notice him with you.  Another sign that he's less invested in the relationship is if he shies away from introducing you to his family. If you've questioned him on this and he has a long list of excuses, take that as a sign that he's just not at the stage where he wants you to meet the people closest to him.

Another of the signs he does not love you focuses on the depth of his interest in your life. When a man is crazy about the woman in his life he naturally wants to know ALL there is to know about her. He asks about her job, how her day went and just how she feels generally about things. Her opinion is incredibly important to him. If your boyfriend rarely shows interest in you as a person, something is amiss in the relationship.

Some of the danger signs that he doesn't love you are more subtle than others. It takes a discerning mind to notice.  One involves conversations or dates. If you two are spending time together, whether it's talking, texting or you're together in person, who ends the exchange most of the time? If it's your boyfriend don't let that go unnoticed. Men who are in love have a very hard time letting go, even if it's just to say goodbye after a quick phone call. If he's crazy about you, he'll try and keep you with him for as long as he possibly can. If he's in a hurry to leave or to stop talking, his interest in you may not be as much as you think of hope.

The earlier you face the truth that he is not the man for you the better it would be for you. It is better to be with a man who is equally interested in you and appreciates you. Any man who cannot shower you with love, affection, respect and appreciation is not worth you. After all life is too short to be wasted on someone who does not love you.