Well.... He's Just Not All That Into You

You are with this new guy who you are really interested in but he doesnt seem to be responding to you with the same amount of enthusiasm you wish. He may see or even call you occasionally, possibly at your suggestion, or may only be calling you late on a Friday night for a last-minute date. You don't like it but you continue to make excuses for his behavior and believe that the longer you hold on or he’s around you, the better the chance is of his falling in love with you. Unfortunately, the truth may be that he’s just not into you. Check out these telltale signs that he’s not into you to and decide if it’s time to forget him and move on.
 

He doesn't want to be around you

When a guy is into a woman, he does whatever it takes to make time to see her. He makes a serious effort to plan time to be together with her. If you find you are the only one calling, inviting him over or planning your meetings and he is just going along with it half-heartedly, then he's just not that into you. Stop calling, planning and inviting and see what happens. If he's into you, he will call and invite you but if you don't hear from him, you know it is time to move on.
 

He always has an Excuse

Just how many times can you believe that the guy you are seeing has to work late or isn't feeling well or visiting his 'sick granny'? When a guy is avoiding you, he thinks it's better to make excuses instead of hurting your feeling by stating outright that he isn't into you. If he's too busy to see you at the beginning of the relationship, then it's obvious he won't have time for you later on either. Take the hint and look for a man who really is into you.

 

He forgets important things you tell him

A guy who is interested in you will make sure to remember your favorite flower, food, perfume or that special drink you always order. He will also pay attention when you tell him you are up for a promotion at work or that you mentioned the last time you spoke that you were having a headache. If your guy is always asking what you want to drink when you go out, doesn't ask about your promotion or if your headache is gone, then he's not the one for you.
 

He says he just wants to be friends

Yes, ladies, when a guy says he only wants to be friends, he means it. No matter how sexy your new dress is, no matter how often you 'accidently' bump into him when out on the town, you are not going to change his mind. Even if he does ask you to go to a movie or club with him – he means as a friend only. A guy who is into you will not say he just wants to be friends, so if the guy you like says this, believe him and give up thinking that you could be more than just friends. Unless you can accept to be just friends too, it will be time to move on.
 

He looks at other women when he's with you

When a guy is interested in the woman he is with, he doesn't crane his neck or look over your shoulder to catch a glimpse of the woman behind you in the tight dress. His eyes and attention should be on you, and only you. If your guy is checking out every cute woman who passes your table when you are out together, then he is not that into you.
 

He thinks your girlfriend is hotter than you

A man who is into you will never look you in the face and say your girlfriend has it better on the looks stake than you.  Instead, he will have respect for you feelings and will make extra efforts not to hurt them by not expressing his observations.  If your guy ogles your friends, compliments and compares their looks with yours, it is clear he's not all that into you. 

When a guy is not into you, that's it, he is not into you.  Don't remain in the state of denial. The earlier you accept reality and make efforts to move on, the better it will be for you.