Lust and love are two completely different emotions that come to play interchangeably in relationships. It is common to think one is in love while in fact one is in lust. Are you confused and don't know whether it's love or lust? Below is how to find out.
1. YOU LIKE BEING AROUND THEM
It's likely to be love than lust if, when you’re together, you’re on "cloud nine". You just love and enjoy spending time together and you crave their company. Being around them makes you happy, even if you’re just sitting at home on the couch watching a movie.
2. TIME TOGETHER ISN'T SO IMPORTANT
It's not so far from lust if you only spend time with them when it’s convenient for you. When you get spend time together it’s just whatever. There’s no substance behind the time you spend together, and if anything you’re only in it for the physicality of it all. While you may enjoy time with them, you don’t enjoy it for the right reasons.
3. PHYSICAL ATTRACTION, ALWAYS
It's love if you find them attractive no matter what they are wearing or how they've been. When they're dressed up for work or wearing sweats and a t-shirt and lounging on the couch, you find them just as attractive. When you love someone, you also love their looks no matter what time it is or what they’re wearing.
4. THEY ARE ONLY EYE CANDY
It's definitely lust if you only find him to be attractive on the days they are dressed up and looking to impress. Other days you know that you want them strictly for their body and nothing more. They are good looking, toned, and fit, and that’s what you really like most about them.
5. YOU PAY GREAT ATTENTION WHEN THEY TALK
It's love when you two are at dinner or at home having a conversation you’re tuned in 100%. You take in all of their words, thoughts, and feelings, digest and take them into consideration. When you really care about a someone, you’ll notice that you become a great listener and communicator when around them.
6. YOU COULD CARE LESS ABOUT THEIR EMOTIONS AND THOUGHTS
It's lust if, when they talk to you about their day or a recent rough patch that they've hit, your ears and mind quickly go elsewhere. When the talk about things aside from you and the time you spend together, you’re just completely uninterested. You don’t make effort to communicate with them or listen to what they have to say because you’re more than likely in lust.
7. YOU FEEL OTHER THINGS FOR THEM
Love and lust are both emotions but when you’re in lust, there’s an absence of other emotions. When you’re in love you care about the person you’re with. You worry about their safety and you start trusting and confiding in them. When other emotions begin to take centre stage, definitely love is in the air.
8. IT’S ALL PHYSICAL
When it all comes down to it, you realize that everything is pretty much physical. You don’t have a lot of feelings for them. You don’t care how their day went at work. You’re most worried about when they’ll be in your bed next or when you’ll be in theirs. This is a pure sign of lust.
It's love if you love to keep in touch with them. Whenever you are apart, you find yourself reaching out to them throughout the day in order to check up on them and see how things are going. Staying in constant communication with them during the day is extremely important to you. If talking to them really makes your day, then it's love.
10. TALKING TO THEM ISN'T THAT ESSENTIAL
It's lust if you only talk to them when it’s convenient for you or if going without talking for a couple of days or even a week is no big deal to you. You like seeing them but it’s not extremely important to you at the end of the day. If you don’t feel the need to reach out to them or say a word to them throughout the day then you’re simply in lust.
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